When Max Dickins decided to propose to his girlfriend, he realised there was no one he could call on to be his best man. He quickly learned that that he wasn't the only man struggling with friendships. For decades, countless studies from across the world have confirmed that men have fewer close friends than women - and the problem gets worse the older men get. But what goes wrong? And what can men do about it? Dickins is going to find out.
His funny and charmingly candid search takes him to the doors of world-leading experts. It forces him to examine the friendships he's had over the years, and where they have foundered. And, briefly, it sends him to the website 'Rent A Friend', where he pays someone to hang out with him. But let's not dwell on that.
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Featured Articles
The Sunday Times:
Why do so many men have no real friends?
The Observer:
When it comes to banter, men are in their element. But that is no foundation for lasting friendship.
Daily Mail:
Why do so many men have so few friends? How one proposal led to a search for a best man.
YouTube:
Listen to Max on Modern Wisdom
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Radio 4 Women’s Hour
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An experienced and acclaimed speaker and presenter, Max has been invited to give talks and host corporate events around the world.
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